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WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 24, 2004                                                        ITEM OF INTEREST
"Never Hate in Plurals": US-Saudi People-to-People Relationships
Khaled Al Maeena at the Hampton Roads World Affairs Council

"You see the relationship that the United States and Saudi Arabia and especially the people had was a special relationship." Clockwise from lower left: Arab-US Policymakers Conference 2003; US delegation meets Saudi Education Minister and officials; American classroom; Saudi trainees in Riyadh; Center: King Abdul Aziz meeting with President Franklin Roosevelt in 1945.

 

EDITOR'S NOTE:

The Saudi-US Relations Information Service is pleased to share this presentation by Khaled Al-Maeena, Editor of Arab News.  Mr. Al-Maeena appeared as a guest speaker at a dinner hosted by the Greater Hampton Roads (Virginia) World Affairs Council on September 16, 2004.  We hope you will take time to read his observations on the state of people-to-people relationships between Americans and Saudis and his thoughts on how to move forward.

 
"Never Hate in Plurals": US-Saudi People-to-People Relationships
Khaled Al Maeena at the Hampton Roads World Affairs Council

WORLD AFFAIRS COUNCIL OF GREATER HAMPTON ROADS
KHALED A. AL MAEENA
September 16, 2004

William Butler, President and CEO of Suntrust Bank, Hampton Roads: This is a real honor for me to be here tonight with our guests, and to extend a warm Hampton Roads welcome to all of them.

I spent four summers in Dhahran in Saudi Arabia in the early '60s, back when oil was very much cheaper than it is today. I think it cost us ten to fifteen cents a gallon at the pumps just outside Dhahran. Unfortunately, I wasn't old enough to drive back then. I also had the opportunity to spend four years in Iran, in Abadan, Iran. My father was an engineer with an oil company. And that experience, coupled with my experience in Saudi Arabia has given me a deep appreciation for the Middle East culture, the Arab culture. And I really enjoyed tonight catching up with what's taking place in the Kingdom, how Dhahran where I lived for four summers has transformed. And, again, it's a real honor for me to introduce Dr. Khaled Al Maeena and his wife Samar Fatany. Welcome.

As you've read, Dr. Maeena is a well-known PR consultant, media personality, editor and journalist in Saudi Arabia. He was CEO of Saudi Public Relations Company for eight years. His many media and diplomatic achievements include representing the Saudi media at several very important summit meetings in the Arab world, including Arab summits of Baghdad and Morocco. He was a member of the Saudi Diplomatic Delegation to the People's Republic of China and Russia, after relations between the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia and those countries were established. He has extensive knowledge of Western media, and throughout his professional life he has made frequent visits to the United States, Europe, Asia, and Gulf countries. And his children have studied here in this country. He has consequently been involved as a guest lecturer at many internationally renowned colleges and universities and institutions. And while he's been here in Hampton Roads this week, he has spent a lot of time with high school students and college students in this region and also with the League of Women Voters. And we really appreciate what both Khaled and Samar have done to gain a more balanced perspective or a perhaps a different perspective than what we hear from much of the American press. 

Dr. Al Maeena has been the Editor-in-Chief of Arab News which is the largest English daily in the Middle East. And he's been in that capacity for over fifteen years. He first joined the newspaper in June of 1982 and served as Editor-in-Chief until February of 1993.  He rejoined Arab News in March of '99, has been Editor since then. He's also been an anchor on Saudi television and hosted many popular talk shows. He's worked as a radio announcer on a TV program. He's very interested in sports and has been a sports promoter in Saudi Arabia, promoting both squash and tennis tournaments. He has been educated extensively abroad, studied in the United States, Britain, Pakistan, and India. 

It's a real honor having someone of his stature here to give us his perspective.  

His wife is equally accomplished. Mrs. Samar Fatany is a senior announcer, journalist, and radio talk show host for Radio Jeddah. She has a masters..  a BA from Cairo University in Egypt and has studied with the BBC on a number of occasions and she, in many respects, is the best-known female radio personality in the Kingdom, and has covered just about all of the major affairs in her country.  She has accompanied Khaled on numerous trips abroad and has been involved in many high-level interviews of foreign and local officials and opinion leaders.

So, please join me in welcoming Dr. Al Maeena and his wife here to Hampton Roads.

Dr. Khaled Al Maeena

Thank you, ladies and gentlemen. It is indeed a pleasure and a privilege to be here and I'm very happy to be in your fair city. But I am sad at the same time, sad because I lived in Virginia all these years and never discovered Norfolk.. it's my loss. But anyway, Virginia has always been a second home to us, to my children.

Before I was born, America was a second home to many Saudis for many reasons: first, because the discovery of oil in Saudi Arabia after it was formed in 1932, thanks to these young American drillers who came in from California and Texas and Arizona and other parts of the United States, in those days just before the Second World War, and braved inclement weather, extreme heat and extreme cold, scorpions, snakes, and hostile terrain and dug, drilled for oil, fueled the economic engine of Saudi Arabia, which was a small country, and really helped us to get on the map. And so, for that, we owe Americans a great deal of thanks. As a result of the discovery of oil by the American companies, our trend was that we started looking at America. And this was done not only through government directives, but also through people.

In 1946, you had Saudi students studying at the University of Southern California. And one of them ended up marrying an American lady from Pasadena and brought her home. And she wrote a book called At the Drop of a Veil. The second edition is coming out now. She's a sprightly old 84 year-old lady who still lives in Pasadena. Thus, you see the relationship that the United States and Saudi Arabia and especially the people had was a special relationship. It was a cordial relationship, and things were moving smoothly.

..the relationship that 
the United States and 
Saudi Arabia and especially 
the people had was a 
special relationship..

The Second World War ended and oil was needed again to fuel economic growth in Europe. It was Saudi oil which also helped the Marshall Plan, which the United States very generously implemented so that those countries in Europe that were devastated by the war would progress. And at that phase, I think, of world history, there was the ominous danger that was the Cold War. And as the Cold War started to become colder, what happened was that the Saudis decided to join the Americans in their fight and containment of Communism, and they did so. We were very happy to sign several treaties, including defense training, including social and economic development programs. And as such, I think that the United States' President Eisenhower became almost a household name in the Arab World. And even in Iran, there was a big.. the biggest boulevard in Tehran was called Eisenhower Boulevard. And there were others, like Truman Boulevard. And so the relations not only of the governments but of the peoples in the Arab world and the United States were very strong. We were together in the fight together against communism, in its containment.

At the same time, we looked at America as a beacon of freedom to help us and help our governments progress and move ahead. Thousands and thousands of students came, not because they had to but because of choice. America offered in many ways many things that were similar to our way of life. Yes, we differed in many ways culturally. Yes, there were different attitudes and social mores, but in the basic essence -- the belief in God, the family values, the upward mobility -- these were similar, these were the similarities in our mode of thinking. And people started to come here.

In the 70's and the 80's, too, with the oil prices going up, the development program started in Saudi Arabia. And thousands, literally, of Americans came and settled there. In addition to the people that were working there for Saudi Arabian Oil Company -- ARAMCO -- we had others who took part. TWA started managing Saudi Airlines, other companies -- Parsons, Bechtel and all -- these names became very familiar. It was not just an import from American culture; it was know-how. It was a relationship based on equality. We were not just a client state. Yet, even in those days, we were accused of pandering to the Americans. But we said, 'no.' The Americans are partners who we look up to, who have helped us also develop so many of our initiatives and bring them into reality. And things went on, despite the various political bickering from leaders of both sides. There was a cordial relationship and atmosphere.

At one time, there 
were 27 flights from
Saudi Arabia, weekly 
flights, to the United 
States.. Now, there 
are only two.

I remember coming here all the time, and for Saudis coming here it was a natural destination, not only for education but for tourism. At one time, there were 27 flights from Saudi Arabia, weekly flights, to the United States and Washington. Now, there are only two.

And I think what happened was that 'good things don't last', as they say. And then came September 11th, a great day of shock and horror to people. To many of us, it was something unbelievable. It was like watching a horror movie. And I say this, the two countries that were most effected by September 11th were the United States -- because 3,000 people were murdered on a fine morning, innocent people -- and Saudi Arabia second. because the perpetrators of this evil act had come from there or belonged to that area. In fact, the first thing that the Saudi leadership did was to immediately condemn these attacks.

I remember that I was in Boston, and I had traveled by road to Washington when I saw the first statement, and it was a genuine statement by the Crown Prince who is deeply committed to US-Saudi relations, and by the people, the clergy. But the shock was there. And America was really hurt, and they asked why. And they had every right and reason to ask why. And we asked why. Why did these people do it? Who are these people? Because we couldn't identify them at that time. There was that denial. And people accused us of being in denial. I said yes, the shock was that in a country which prided itself that there are no crimes -- for those who have lived there literally no armed robberies, no rapes, no kidnappings -- there was certainly denial.  To have people from our country commit such horror really put us in a state of shock.

..then came September
11th.. ..in a country 
which prided itself that
 there are no crimes.. 
..there was certainly 
denial.  To have people 
from our country commit 
such horror really put us 
in a state of shock..

In America, people were in shock and grief. And we did feel America's grief, and we did feel upset. And there was soul-searching, despite what one read in the newspaper -- and I've got a foot in both camps.  I was here at that time.  The grief was significant. As events unfolded we came to know the 'why' and the 'who' -- that this was a band of thugs and murderers who in no way represented our society or our religion. But what happened then -- and I pleaded with many of my American friends to start a joint action and to search and probe and find out -- on our part we felt aggrieved because suddenly the avalanche of hate which followed the grief.. and I do not blame people for getting upset.. and it pained me that the same friends and people had suddenly changed.

The majority of the people in the United States, like the majority of people elsewhere, do not have an idea of the nitty-gritty of what governments do, what are the relations between certain Saudis and the Americans, of how many Saudis were there. We were condemned, and that was something that we had to live with. The application of the principle of collective guilt: every one of us was a terrorist, a crook, a criminal, a murderer. And this pained me.

So, I decided to take the rest into my own hand. And you have a saying here: 'when the going gets tough, the tough get going." So, we decided to look into what was happening. As a newspaper, as private individuals, the first month post-September 11th, we received 600,000 emails full of hate and venom. But we were not upset. We knew America was angry, and we knew why they were angry. And we started replying. And this is no exaggeration. I had a task force of volunteers, Saudi men and women who were very concerned about this link, this 70-year link between us and the United States which is based on more than oil.

Many people in America view us as a gas station, as a big gas station. We offered more to America. In times of need we stood by them, whether it was Afghanistan, whether it was Nicaragua, whether it was other things that were happening in the Middle East. And especially in stopping the tide of Communism. People don't realize that we were surrounded, and had it not been for Saudi-American cooperation, half of that part of the world would have fallen to the Reds. 

We wanted the Americans to know this, but the Americans were in grief. And I remember among the hateful things that came, people sort of thought of us as the reincarnation of the devil, and they made Islam the religion of the devil. Some people are ignorant of our Judeo-Christian roots. 

..We offered more to 
America.. ..especially in 
stopping the tide of Communism.. ..had it 
not been for Saudi-American
 cooperation, half of that 
part of the world would 
have fallen to the Reds..

I'll illustrate one example which again shows of how the American people, once they know the truth and once they have an idea, they can change their minds. So, on the 16th of December of 2001, just three months after the horror attacks on New York and Washington, I received an email from a gentleman in Montana. Usually we divided the letters that came in into three categories: one with the four-letter words -- and I led a very sheltered life, so I kept those on the side.  Another was for intellectuals who wrote and sent things in impeccable English, keeping those on the side, knowing that this person, no matter how offensive the message was to us, must be a graduate or working in academia or maybe a businessman. The third category was our answer to them. But anyway, this gentleman said, and I quote, and I remember that email-he said, "I hope that you pigs and swines and murderers.." (he didn't use the 'f word') "..will be decimated by the armies of Christ. The armies of Lord Jesus Christ will come and kill you.." And he went on. Knowing he was from Montana.. [AUDIENCE LAUGHS]

..and knowing a little bit about America, I decided to send him an email using an American adage that 'you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar'. At first, I said that I was going to sock it to this guy, but I said no. I feel his pain. So, I decided to write to him.

I said, "Please do not apply.." -- that was the first time I used that expression in my dealings with Americans -- "do not apply the principle of collective guilt. I am not Mr. Bin Laden's agent, nor do I subscribe to his theories." And I did explain my condolences, and I wrote "Peace."

Two hours later he replies back and says, 'What do you animals know about peace? You swine, you pigs!' And he went on.. tough nut to crack, but I am a tougher nut.

So, I decided to send another email to the guy, and I said, 'I'm sorry, but I don't know why you use this venom against me. I am as innocent as you are.'

Anyway, on the 25th of December which was just five days later, and this was the first Christmas after this sad incident, I decided to send him a gift. You can send gifts through email, so I went to the Qur'an and took out from the words of Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ, the story of the nativity of Jesus Christ, the birth of Jesus Christ. And I sent it to him, and I said, 'This is my Christmas gift to you.'

One hour later he sends me an email and says, "And now you steal our Bible?!"

And it sort of made me think about it, and then I sent another email on the 28th. I said, 'This is not the Bible. You have been accusing us of being anti-Christ, but I think that Muslims more firmly believe in Christ maybe more than you." And I explained to him why, that you cannot be a Muslim if you do not believe in Jesus Christ. You cannot be a Muslim if you do not believe in Moses and Abraham, and especially I focused on the Lord Jesus Christ. And I explained to him and gave him other notes from other transliterations from the Holy Qur'an. I'm not in the preaching business, nor do I want to convert people. As it is, there are many preachers around. So, I again wrote "Peace."

Three days later he sends me an email -- I think three days was respite for me -- he sent me an email, and it was the most profound email I had ever received in my life. He said, "Dear Mr. Al Maeena, thank you for your last email." And I was waiting and bracing myself for what was coming up next.. and he said, "If my father was alive today, he would have hit me on the knuckles for being so rude to you and for being nasty to you and for applying this principle of collective guilt that you said. And I'm sorry. I never knew that Muslims believed in Jesus Christ." And he said, "I apologize, and I'm going to my church tomorrow, and I'm going to speak, and I'm going to apologize to you in front of the congregation."

I felt very touched. And it was indeed an example of the greatness of the American people, that if they know the truth, if they seek the truth, if they come to that conclusion, then they can change their minds.

We corresponded for quite some time. Three months later an email came from the same family name but a different first name and said, "My father who corresponds with you is ill, terminally ill. I hope that you will pray for him." So, I posted it on the "net." And there were maybe about five hundred Muslims from Indonesia to Morocco who sent emails to him, saying that we were praying for you in our Friday prayers in our mosques.

So, there were these guys from Montana who thought, these Muslims, we are abusing them, and they are praying for us -- and indeed they were genuine. There were people who wrote letters to this man in Montana.  Anyway, the gentleman died in April, but we still maintain good relations with his family. Not only his family but even the barber in that community started writing to us. 

It shows that basically people are the same. There is no hatred among people. Hatred is caused by ignorance. It's caused by the media -- I'm also responsible for that because I'm in the media. It's also caused by suspicion, when we paint pictures, when we tell about it, when we demonize Islam -- and forgetting and conveniently obliterating the fact that we are an extension of Judaism and Christianity. True, there are problems. I'm not being idealistic. There are many problems that this world has. Otherwise it would be heaven, without problems. There are political differences. There are social differences. But basically, I think we have a common enemy, that of ignorance and hunger and disease, AIDS, other health issues, global warming, now, that are confronting humanity, confronting all of us. I think that we have to focus on points of convergence rather than divergence.

..basically people are 
the same.. ..Hatred is 
caused by ignorance.. 
..It's also caused by suspicion.. ..I'm not 
being idealistic.. ..There 
are differences. But, I 
think we have a common
 enemy, that of ignorance 
and hunger and disease.. 
..we have to focus on 
points of convergence..

Anyway, after that, we decided to talk openly to the American people and tell them that we are also victims of terror, as you are victims of terror, not on that large of a scale, but on a scale that frightens us. People do not hate America. The Muslim is not your enemy. And they started believing that. We are not a PR company, and I'm just an ordinary man, but I saw among the Saudis, among the Muslims, the idea that we have to maintain that link. 

We wanted friends in this part of the world. We wanted partners in this part of the world. We are not a banana republic, and God has blessed us, as is known, with wealth. And we were doing things, not to appease America, but we believed in the American people and the goodness of the American people. And we wanted to destroy the terrorists, those who want to create a wedge between religions and between peoples. Our victory would have been if we would all have said 'no' to them instead of being accused of shaming each other. Unfortunately, it didn't subside on this part. Many things are.. you know, one of the generals spoke about 'your God', and one person said the Muslims worship the moon god. We worship the same God as you do. We have the same prophets as you do. I was discussing Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John with somebody, and they said, "Did you read the Bible? And do you know Noah's Ark?"  I said, 'This is in the Qur'an." 

So, I would always..  I'm not being overly optimistic. Things can be better. I think if we all try, and if we all seek the truth, because we read in the newspaper.. sometimes I read things here in the newspaper that really make me upset and pain me, when people write and they still make fun of our Prophet. As I said, we believe in Jesus Christ and that he will come back, but we also believe that there was a prophet after him, which was our Prophet Muhammad. And when you read someone like Ann Coulter saying blasphemous things, and when you read other things, how do you expect people who live in that part of the world, who also listen --"They hate us," "Us against them," "Either with us or against us" -- they get suspicious. And this fuels the tempers of young people who then tend to be enticed by these devils who want them to come.

..I read things here in 
the newspaper that
 really make me upset 
and pain me, when
people write and they 
still make fun of our 
Prophet.. ..when you read
 someone.. saying
 blasphemous things.. 
..this fuels the tempers 
of young people who then 
tend to be enticed by these
 devils who want them to
 come.

So, there's no organic problem between the United States and the Arab world. As I've said, the Muslim world was the natural ally of the United States for a long time. And we want it to remain that way. I believe that somebody asked me, "What should we do?" I said, "It takes people-to-people connections." And I said that people should try and clamp down on those who incite people against each other and against other religions because all of us are the children of God, all of us have the same concerns -- the concerns of bringing up our children, the concerns of seeing that they get a better position in life, upward mobility, taking care of ourselves. You ask a Saudi mother, "What would you like your son or daughter to have?" And she will say, "I would like them to have a laptop in their hands." No mother would want their daughter or son to have a grenade, to have a dagger to go on killing. Yes, there are the realities of the world. There are people who espouse violence.  This is on both sides, and both sides are to blame.

So, I think those who are in business, those who are intellectuals, those who are in academia should get together, talk frankly. We have differences. People talk about violence, people talk about things.  Yes, we disagree with US foreign policy in the Middle East. We disagree with US foreign policy elsewhere. But that doesn't mean that we hate the American people. We would like to iron out these differences. The United States is a harbinger of peace and prosperity and justice. It should be viewed in the Middle East, it should be viewed in our part of the world, as an honest broker, as a country that can push through positive things.  It should be able to create the image and the perception in the minds of people that, yes, this is a country that would stand with the weak and be righteous, not only in its capacity as people but also as leaders.

..The United States 
is a harbinger of
 peace and prosperity 
and justice. It should 
be viewed in the Middle
 East, it should be 
viewed in our part of 
the world, as an honest
 broker, as a country 
that can push through
 positive things..

Unfortunately, there is no morality in politics in many places of the world. And it happens in our part of the world, it happens in this part of the world. There are politicians, people who look for short-term gains. But I think that we can impress upon our local leaders and upon others that whatever steps they take, whatever utterances come, and if you have people amongst us, whether they are church leaders, or whether they are business leaders, we should ask them to be calm and not come up with things that could hurt us.

We were talking a couple of minutes ago with some people about the Saudis coming from Saudi Arabia to here. The numbers have trickled down, and somebody asked me why. I said that it was racial profiling, not getting visas and all. I personally would be hurt if this link that has been there for 70 years was broken because of some bureaucrat not getting his papers in order. I would really like people in academia to push through and get students here. 

I would like to make the point that these 15 of the 19 who did these acts were not students. None of them were studying in a graduate school. None of them were studying in a university. These were people who had already slipped in through these immigration laws, who had come in as temporary students or had come in to learn how to fly and all. The image of the Saudi student, or the Muslim student, is one who came here -- and many of these people who came from the Muslim countries that were not rich worked hard in order to get a green card and to come and stay here.

And so again, I would like to humbly state that we shouldn't apply this principle of collective guilt, that we should take each on a case-by-case basis. As I tell people, "America is not out to get you. It has its own problems. It has an election going on, and it's enough. These guys are at each other, so take some respite." The same thing I told the Americans: "Believe me, the natives don't bite."

So, I hope that I will be able to carry this message, that when I go back I can say that I was met in a very friendly manner, that people in America were, yes, upset and hurt. But we have to make something from this, to try and to utilize this horrific act, this evil day, to make something good that will be permanent and will be lasting. I'm not being idealistic. 

..I hope that I will be 
able to carry this 
message, that when I 
go back I can say that 
I was met in a very 
friendly manner, that 
people in America were, 
yes, upset and hurt. But 
we have to make 
something from this, to 
try and to utilize this 
horrific act, this evil day, 
to make something 
good that will be 
permanent and will be 
lasting..

I think it's important that we walk that extra mile, to exert that extra ounce of strength, to see to it that this hate, ignorance, ill-feeling, and ill-will will be banished forever. And I think that will be the best legacy that we will have for our children. Thank you.

[APPLAUSE]

Moderator:  I assume you're prepared to take some questions. I think you may have provoked a few, my friend.

Khaled Al Maeena: Well, from such nice people, I don't mind.

Host: Well, with the World Affairs Council certainly the question and answers session is one of the finest traditions. 

Question:  Hi. I'm sure you're familiar with the Arab Human Development report that was written by Arabs throughout the Arab world, and I think there's a second edition that's come out now. It's provided a very controversial but honest appraisal of the achievements as well as the shortcomings. And I was wondering what your personal reaction was to it as well as perhaps the official reaction inside Saudi Arabia to that report.

Khaled Al Maeena:  Well, I was pleased with that report because it was done by the Arab people, for the Arab people. And it is high time that we, in the Arab world, call a spade a spade, that we realize and we point our fingers at whatever problem or whatever situation exists. You can only solve a problem by admitting that there's a problem. And for years, call it social mores, or whatever it is, people didn't want to think anything bad, that everything was alright. But this report opened peoples' eyes because it focused on the need to focus on young people, education, bureaucracy, accountabilities. So, I think it is a good sign that people now are realizing that there is illness in our society and we have to take care of that.

Question:  Is that your opinion, or is it official?

Khaled Al Maeena:  I have no post. I am a man of the people.

Question:  Dr. Al Maeena, a few years ago the Crown Prince spent considerable capital, I think, in bringing together all the Arab leaders, to agree on a concord, a way of approaching the Israelis, so that this issue could be settled. Unfortunately, it didn't materialize, but his efforts were considerable and there was great hope throughout the world. Do you think there's an opportunity again for the Kingdom to work with the Arab nations to moving this issue a little bit closer to resolution?

Khaled Al Maeena:  Well, I was there on that great day in Beirut when the Crown Prince announced that there would be complete normalization, and all the Arab countries signed. But unfortunately, the next day the sad events happened on the West Bank. There were these killings, and Mr. Sharon blocked it. I really believe that if there was another government down there this wouldn't have happened. 

The Arab countries would like normalization, but at the same time would like to see implementation of UN resolutions 242 and 338, which the United States is a signatory of. And as I said, people want peace. At times we are told, "But these are the guys that said they want to throw Israel into the sea." This is Cold War rhetoric. This is the same thing that Khrushchev did when he banged his shoe in the United Nations. Nobody does these things anymore. Young people on both sides want peace. To me, the problem is the interference with the Palestinians and Israelis by outsiders. And I think if both these people are allowed to talk to each other and allowed to deal and negotiate and have a new set of leaders, believe me, I'm sure the problems would be solved much sooner than we think. But outside interference by groups, by parties, by governments, by people from our area and outside the area have impeded any sort of travel on this road that will take us to a complete and normal peace in the Middle East.

Question:  Sir, I admire your courage tonight. I'm intrigued. My question is, given your Qur'an and your sunna and, I guess, your hadith for the Wahhabi, which gives you the sharia for your everyday behavior, given your five times a day involvement in prayers, how do people like Osama Bin Laden and the other people who want to fight, break loose from your community because it's such a superb, welded religious operation, and I don't understand how they got loose?

Khaled Al Maeena:  Well, it's mind-boggling. Sometimes I try to wonder why did this guy travel this road, and I sort of researched.. and again, this is not a blame game. Most of these people, the extremists and the terrorists, were products of the Afghan war. It was very unfortunate.

When the Russians invaded Afghanistan -- and not many people know this-in 1979 there were two countries that were really alarmed. The United States was alarmed, and then, of course, Pakistan was alarmed because the Soviets were coming up. And on the other side there was another country, India. And then, of course, Saudis were alarmed. But at that time, Saudi oil prices were going up. There was money. So the United States asked Saudi Arabia to help play a role in stemming and stopping this tide of the Russian onslaught that was coming in. And so the people were encouraged to go and fight. 

Young people left school. It was exactly like the Spanish Civil War, the romantics and everyone. And then, of course, religion stepped in: "Go and fight the godless communists." So, then it became an Islamic fight. But then, not only was it an Islamic fight -- everybody came in. And I will remember in 1982 I was in Peshawar when I saw a hippie type of character walking, and I said, "Why are you here? Who are you?" He said, "I'm a bartender from Brussels, and I've come to fight the Soviets." So, I said, "Are you a Muslim or an Asian or an Afghan?" And he said, "No. It's a great thing for me to be here." Now, this is a guy from Brussels who wanted adventure. But there were many others who were told to go and fight in the name of God, and fight in the name of religion, and they did so.

Now, when the Soviet forces were defeated or, as you say, vacated from the premises of Afghanistan, these people had nothing to do. The mistake that the United States did -- and the other Arab countries -- they did not use these young people. The United States just walked out. The Arab countries just left. Pakistan pulled its troops. And these people had no one. They were like the lost legion. 20,000 to 25,000 people from all over the Muslim world and even from Europe and Africa and Asia were there. And, for whatever reason, they had no one to guide them. They could not go back to school. People viewed them with suspicion. Many of them had come to the Arab countries and were put in jail by the same people who told them to go and fight.

Then, of course, a savior came in the form of Al Qaeda, Bin Laden and all, and those people took them under their wing and told them something else. They said, "You guys have defeated one of the superpowers and made them retreat to Moscow. There's another superpower, so let's go and hit it." And that's why September 11 happened. Because of the twisted logic of some people who took these young people -- and I feel sorry for them. And I really feel sorry because we owe it to them. And we are responsible for the neglect of these young people, be we governments or parents or educators and all. And let them loose. They had no place to go. And when you have no hope, the first person who offers you aid, you gladly accept that, and that's why this happened.

Question:  I'd like to ask what advice you'd give to aspiring Muslim journalists who face slander?

Khaled Al Maeena:  Who face slander? Well, I think journalists should be brave enough. You know, I believe that if you are in this field, whatever you write becomes public property, because the next day anyone who reads it can attack you. I believe that the Muslims of America -- and I was very happy to note there were many Muslims I met in California. And the first thing they said was: "Please don't bring your problems from the Middle East and Asia and Africa to us. We may be ethnically belonging to that part, but we are Americans first." And that gave me hope. Because, if you are here, you are first an American, and your loyalty is to the flag and the Constitution. America is a secular society. And before 9/11, somebody wrote in a Saudi paper that it is the greatest place for religion. And he also wrote that America is a promised land because you can be a Bill Clinton, Bill Kristol, Bill Gates, anything in the United States. And this was true when I read it. In America, you can be anything.

Question:  Dr. Al Maeena, first I'd like to say something. Your countryman, Dr. Abdullah Mohammed Basnabi, is a very good friend of mine. We were studying for our doctorate at the University of New Mexico. I'm talking about early '80s. And we discussed many thing like you said here. And at that time was the Afghanistan invasion. And he was a staunch anti-Communist, like myself, because I suffered in my native Hungary. But my question to him was, "What can we do to change the Americans' minds concerning Arabs or Muslims?" Still, today, the same problem. Even here I was talking to some people, you cannot change because they are "terrorists." Now, because some are involved, how come everybody is like that? Something should be done concerning changing the minds of the Americans. Maybe we should call the White House? I doubt it. So, what is your opinion, sir? Thank you.

Khaled Al Maeena:  Well, peoples' opinions change. I think this media hype has made it in such a way and there is media in certain quarters with a vested interest in the United States to create a wedge. They're trying to make it as if the Muslims are from Mars. We're not. We're from here, too. There are American Muslims, there are Anglo-Saxon Muslims and so forth.  There are others who want us to placate them and sort of grovel. This happened in Europe and it has happened elsewhere. I think if we take everything in stride, work hard to produce results and get on with our lives, you know, nothing will happen. As they say, "Sticks and stones may break my bones but names won't hurt me." So, that's the thing with Americans. There will be bigots. They're a nation of 300 million people. There will still be people after I leave who will say that they aren't convinced, that say this is a whitewash. And there are people in the Arab world who are still not convinced that the United States is not an enemy to the Arab states. They believe that the United States moved into Iraq to grab Iraqi oil. Now, I don't know what the motives are -- some of the planners don't know themselves -- but you cannot go around and sort of generalize. The danger, my friend, is generalization. I am not my brother's keeper, so I would also want the Americans and for those who hear this, that do not generalize. If one person is bad, don't claim that everyone is bad. And this is exactly what I would do. I would move on. Just wear that British stiff upper lip and get on with my life.

There will still be
 people after I leave 
who will say that they 
aren't convinced,  that 
say this is a whitewash.
 And there are people in
 the Arab world who are 
still not convinced that 
the United States is not
 an enemy to the Arab 
states.. ..The danger, my
 friend, is generalization.. 
..If one person is 
bad,  don't claim that 
everyone is bad..

Moderator: I'd like to ask Samar a question. I think it would be a great loss of an opportunity if she didn't speak. One of the questions addressed taking democracy to the Arab world and helping it take root. And we in the United States -- 85 years ago, women didn't have the right to vote. More than half of the population. The Voting Rights Act is not even 40 years old which cemented the right of African Americans to vote here. And we have expectations about how other countries should be more democratic. I would like your perception as a professional Saudi woman, about the progress in Saudi society in terms of democratization and in terms of opportunities for women. And perhaps would you come up to the podium if your husband will share it with you and talk to the group for a moment.

Khaled Al Maeena:  Well, I can't say no. In Saudi Arabia, we say that I am the boss of the house, and I have my wife's permission to say so.  [LAUGHTER]  

Samar Fatany:  Well, I think if I could give you an idea of what's going on in Saudi Arabia today, you might get a picture of the lifestyle and what is happening in Saudi society today.

Saudi Arabia is going through a reform movement today that is unstoppable. Saudi women will be the first benefactors of this reform movement. A lot of Saudi women are integrated into the workforce. 50% are women, and 60% of the population are under 25. So, we are in the process of nation-building. And a lot of our young people are concerned, more concerned and occupied about finding a job and getting a better education and having better skills. The government is reforming the educational system because a lot of our graduates don't have necessary skills.  They need to have computer training. English has become obligatory in the primary schools, as it is an international language, and they need it in their work. Training centers are opened up. The Saudization program is being implemented to provide more jobs for our graduates because a lot of the expatriate community is holding up a lot of jobs that are available in the Kingdom. A center has also been set up for women to do business deals and encourage them into the business community. Women are also part of the political agenda, as well. They are in committees, economic committees that have been formed. Three women have been appointed to our consultative council. A lot of women participate in international conferences today. So, women are also involved in the international community, whereas in the past they were marginalized. A lot of our graduates, 44 percent, are women. There's a lot that's going on in Saudi Arabia. It's exciting times, and it's very challenging. Our younger population is very focused. And there's more focus towards giving them better services, better education, and employment.

It pains me to hear that Saudi Arabia is a breeding ground for terrorism and that our youngsters are involved in terrorist acts. Saudi Arabia today is a victim of terrorism. Our security forces are working hard to combat terrorism. A lot of the terrorists have been arrested. A lot of the security forces have lost their lives in trying to protect our country. So, our security and our prosperity is our main concern. And it is important for us to have this reform movement being supported by a strong ally like the United States. I think it would be a great shame to lose the whole of the Middle East to terrorism and to fuel this hatred, to make the whole area into enemies of the United States. It's as if people are saying, "Yes, you are the enemy. Yes, we want to make you the enemy." And that would be a fatal mistake. It would be a lost opportunity not to create better friendships and good will amongst our people.

Question:  A question for Mr. Al Maeena, please. A media question. What is the role of an English-language newspaper in the Middle East? And how much of your circulation is outside of Saudi Arabia?

Khaled Al Maeena: The role of an English-language newspaper is to cater to all the English-speaking people. In our case, the paper was formed to meet the needs of the growing number of people who were coming in, coming in to work. But now, we have also evolved, and now we are a newspaper that everyone reads. We also distribute in the Gulf, in Bahrain, the UAE. We have a strong Indian readership because the subcontinent is very close to us. Four and a half hours flying time. So, we do distribute outside, and we are also on the Internet.

Question:  Dr. Al Maeena, nice to see you again. Actually, the question I'm going to ask came up this morning, but since that was a much smaller audience, I'm going to ask that question again for the benefit of the larger audience. In your presentation in the morning and again tonight, I draw the conclusion that you make a distinction between the hatred -- if I'm able to use that word; it's a very strong word -- but the Arabs do not hate the American people, per se. What they do not like is American foreign policy. As a media person, since you share and seem to believe in that, what are you doing -- and when I say you, I'm referring to the media -- in convincing the average, ordinary Arab man on the street that you don't need to hate Americans. What you need to do is change the system. If people do not hate Americans, I cannot understand for the life of me why they would blow up 3,000 people, many of whom may not have even agreed with the policies of the Administration. What is the Arab News and all other media in the Arab world doing to change the mindset of the average Arab on the street?

Khaled Al Maeena: Well, you have a very large media. That media that has any connection with the governments of that area are very moderate medias. Private medias, we cannot control.

I'll tell you what I did. When this incident happened, my editorials said, "No to Terror." And on the first anniversary of September 11 it was there, and I received thousands of emails, and they were genuine.. and we walked down the street and asked people for their reaction. 

Now, I'll tell you something else that was done.  It was after the Abu Ghraib Prison scandal -- that was something that really shocked everyone. I had an editorial meeting with my staff. And my staff said, "Let's put the most offensive picture on page one."  And I said, "No, I'm not going to put that." And they said, "Let's have voting." And I said, "Okay, but remember, I'm like the United States, and I have the veto, and I'm going to use it." In the end, we decided to put the least offensive picture, the Iraqi prisoner standing on that stool with the hood that I'm sure many of you have seen. And not the one with the dogs and the woman because that was what was most offensive to the Arabs and the Muslims.

But I'm one newspaper and one outlet. Even in the other newspapers that I directly or indirectly have a say in, we decided not to put it. And I was very pleased to see that most Saudi papers did not put it in. Then came the second wave of pictures that were published in most of the Western media. I told my staff, just as I don't want the actions of those who killed 3,000 people and murdered them in cold blood attributed to me, I do not want people in the Arab world to think that these bunch of sick people and crazies who carried out these prison atrocities represent the United States Army. Because I know people. I have met many US military people. I met many of them in the first Gulf War. They are good people, they are soldiers. But if we go on inciting.. the Arab world was inflamed by seeing that picture of the private and the dog -- you have seen that. There were the other pictures of the naked prisoners.  These were things that were alien to us. And so if we don't want the actions of thugs and murderers be applied to us, it works both ways.

"I never hate in plurals." 
It was a great answer 
by a great man.

After the Second World War, Eisenhower was asked a question by a British paper, "Do you hate Germans?" He replied, "I never hate in plurals." It was a great answer by a great man. And I would like America to also subscribe to that theory of Eisenhower. Never hate in plurals.

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Remarks by Khaled al-Maeena
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http://www.saudi-us-relations.org/newsletter2004/saudi-relations-interest-10-19.html

Security in Saudi Arabia and the Prospects for Political Reform 
Khaled al-Maeena, Editor in Chief of Arab News at the Middle East Institute
http://www.saudi-american-forum.org/Newsletters/SAF_Item_Of_Interest_2003_12_12.htm

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER

Mr. Khaled Al-Maeena, a well-known public relations consultant, media personality, editor, and journalist in Saudi Arabia, has been Editor-in-Chief of Arab News, the largest English daily newspaper in the Middle East, for over 15 years.  He first joined the newspaper as Editor-in-Chief from June 1982 until February 1993 and rejoined in March 1998.  He was Chief Executive Officer of the Saudi Public Relations Company (SPRC) from 1993 until 2000.  He served as an anchor and hosted popular talk shows on Saudi Television (STV), and has also worked as a radio announcer and TV program director.

Mr. Al-Maeena has represented the Saudi Arabian media at several important summit meetings in the Arab world, including the Arab summits of Baghdad and Morocco.  He was a member of a Saudi Arabian diplomatic delegation to both the People's Republic of China and Russia after diplomatic relations between the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia and those countries were established.

Mr. Al-Maeena has extensive knowledge of the Western media.  Throughout his professional life, he has made frequent visits to the United States, Europe, Asia, and the Gulf countries, and he has been a guest lecturer at a number of internationally renowned universities, colleges, and institutions.

Mr. Al-Maeena has interviewed numerous heads of state and has himself appeared on CNN, CBS, and STAR TV, especially during the Gulf War.  He steered the Arab News team during the Gulf crisis and is credited with being the first to bring newspapers back into liberated Kuwait.

A regular political and social columnist for Gulf News, Asharq Al-Awsat, Al-Eqtisadiah, Arab News, Times of Oman, Asian Age, and The China Post, Mr. Al-Maeena is also a committed sports promoter and has successfully promoted squash and tennis tournaments in Saudi Arabia.

In 1982, Mr. Al-Maeena joined Saudi Arabian Airlines (Saudia).  He has served there in various capacities, including public relations advisor to the airline and Editor-in-Chief of Saudia World.

Mr. Al-Maeena received his education in several countries, including the United States, Britain, and Pakistan.  He is fluent in English, Arabic, and Urdu.


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